One of the best things we can do for ourselves, is to stop trying to control the things we have no control over. I had to learn this the hard way. I spent the first 35 years of my life believing that I could control my corner of the Universe – my life, my children’s life, my husband’s life, my sibling’s life, and pretty much everyone else’s too.   5 years ago, I had a close family member rebel and make some choices, that didn’t go along with “my plan”. I tried everything I could to change him, his friends, his decisions, his grades, his hobbies, etc., anything what was…