Most of us have these huge, thick, extra long manuals we’ve written for other people. A Manual is basically a book of instructions or rules we think other people should follow. For example, in my “Manual” for my next door neighbor, it states that they should not be allowed to have any annoying, yappy, biting dogs. A lot of LDS moms have manuals for their children that state that they should grow up, graduate from high school, serve an honorable mission, graduate from college, marry in the temple to a spouse who gets along perfectly with the family, and go on to raise perfect children who do the same.  We…