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    Optional

    Sometimes I forget that thoughts are optional. But they are. I forget I get to choose to think whatever I want. Sometimes I want to think sad depressing things and other times I want to think more positive happy thoughts. Neither is right nor wrong. It’s a choice we get to make. Lucky us! More times than I’d like, my thoughts aren’t serving me. I think thoughts that are making me feel or act in a way that I don’t care for. In these moments I have a choice : A. Keep thinking these thoughts and feeling these feelings and acting these ways -OR- B. Think different thoughts and have…

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    Feeling Joy!

    “The JOY we feel has little to do with the circumstances of our lives and everything to do with the focus of our lives.” -Russell M. Nelson The way we feel comes from the thoughts we have about the circumstances around us. We can’t change the circumstance, but we can change our thoughts about it. Fact: Our thoughts are optional. I didn’t learn this fact until I was in my late 30’s. I seriously thought I had no control over what I thought, how I felt, and the results I had. Knowing that I can think anything I want is so freeing. When a thought isn’t serving me, all I…

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    Sabotaging Thoughts

    Your thoughts are the most important weight loss tool. Your brain is also going to try really hard to get you to quit. It does not like change. It prefers to do what it has always done. It will try to offer you thoughts such as: “This is too hard.” “Mmm, I want that!” “I don’t want to miss out!” “But it tastes so good.” “I deserve it.” “I can’t eat that.” “I don’t care anymore.” “Just one bite won’t hurt.” “This isn’t working.” “I can’t do this.” Your thoughts will be your worst enemy if you don’t watch and pay attention to them.  Your thoughts are powerful and they can…

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    Be Love

    There are many ways we can BE in any given situation . We can be jealous, angry, annoyed, happy, selfish, kind, judgmental, and so on. The absolute, very best way to be is to BE LOVE. What you notice about others is the same thing you notice about yourself. What is relevant and important to us are the things we think should be relevant and important to others. When we judge others, we are actually

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    Me Party

    We all host them from time to time. The type of party we throw just special for ourselves and all our problems. Most of the time we don’t even recognize we’re in the middle of this festivity. We see it as our life (or the people in it) is really hard, difficult, and unfair. We may see ourselves as not enough or not having enough. Sometimes this party shows up as resentment or jealousy or sadness. This is not a fun party to attend. It does nothing to serve us. Today, I’m going to share with you 5 ways to break up a pity party.

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    life-changing thoughts

    We choose every thought we think. And we can create any thought we want.        -Carol Tuttle    I didn’t learn this principle until I was in my late 30’s, and it has literally changed my life. Most people think that their thoughts are something that just randomly pop up into their head. Little do they know they have total  control over them and can use them to live a more joyful life.

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